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  • Debra Wallace MS, LMFT
    • About Debra Wallace MS, LMFT
    • Why Positive Reframe
    • How to Train My Brain
    • Positive Reframe (YouTube)
    • Testimonials
  • Therapy Services
    • Addiction And Recovery
    • Conflict Resolution
    • Couples Counseling
    • Depression And Anxiety
    • Family Counseling
    • Grief and Loss
    • Individual, Couple, and Family Therapy Sessions
    • Intimacy and Relationship Issues
    • Parenting Support
    • Peaceful Pregnancy
    • Premarital Counseling
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Positive Reframe

Experience the Paradigm of Trust

NEW BOOK

How to Train My Brain

This playful and personalized guidebook is designed to help kids train their brains and keep them safe when they encounter daily stressors. It helps them connect their mind, body, and heart to make responsible, wise, and kind choices.

This book also helps caregivers tailor their support to best meet the needs of their unique child.

How to Train My Brain

MEET OWL

Neocortex
Executive functions
Your owl is the boss of your thoughts and helps you make responsible decisions.

MEET DOG

Limbic system
Social-emotional functions
Your dog senses whether you feel safe or scared.

MEET GATOR

Brainstem
Basic survival functions
Your gator protects you by reacting quickly to keep you safe and out of danger.


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    How to Train My Brain: A Personalised & Playful Guidebook for Children & Their Caregivers(NZ digital/hardcover)

    How to Train My Brain: A Personalised & Playful Guidebook for Children & Their Caregivers(NZ digital/hardcover)

    It is a personalised and playful guidebook with likable animal characters that teaches children how their brains work best. It is full of interactive, engaging activities that help identify the unique signals our brain sends to us and how to train our brain to help us make good choices and feel better. This book empowers children with nurturing and creative ways to better regulate their nervous systems, process stress, and get vital needs met as well as improve connection and ease stress within the family to help us all be our best loving selves.

    SKU: HTTMB-digital
    $25.00 Original price was: $25.00.$23.00Current price is: $23.00.
  • How to Train My Brain: A Personalized and Playful Guidebook for Children and Their Caregivers (US digital/paperback)

    How to Train My Brain: A Personalized and Playful Guidebook for Children and Their Caregivers (US digital/paperback)

    This interactive and playful guidebook uses likable animal characters that teaches children how their brains work best and how to cope with challenging thoughts, feelings and situations. Get to know what helps your unique child feel safe, soothed and seen in a creative way and you might learn something new too.

    SKU: HTTMB-paper
    $25.00

TESTIMONIALS

Aracely Priller, Germany

“When the owl, dog, and gator make sense together it’s fun, helpful, and gives an a-ha moment. This is a book that needs to be revisited again and again until we learn how to connect the three together automatically and sense them when they separate.”

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Rating: 5 out of 5.

Pamela Leo

“As I read your guidebook, I thought, wow! How different would my relationship with my mom have been if we could have had this information and done this guidebook together when I was a child.

My recommendation would be for parents to purchase a copy for each family member old enough to participate and to do the guidebooks as a parent/child or family activity, with the parent(s) completing their own book. I think children would be more receptive to doing this if their adults are doing it too.”

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Rating: 5 out of 5.

RESOURCES

BOOKS

Adele Faber and Elaine Madlish’s How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk

Ross W. Greene’s The Explosive Child. A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically Inflexible Children. https://www.livesinthebalance.org/parents-families

John Gottman’s and Joan Declaire Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child: The Heart of Parenting

Dr. Anna Martin’s STOP, THINK, ENGAGE. Rethinking Child Discipline – Methods That Work https://dranna.co.nz

Dr. Gabor Mate and Gordon Neufeld’s Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. https://drgabormate.com/book/hold-on-to-your-kids https://neufeldinstitute.org

Peter A. Levine and Maggie Kline’s Trauma-Proofing Your Kids: A Parents Guide for Instilling Confidence, Joy, and Resilience https://www.canr.msu.edu/news/trauma_proofing_your_kids

Dan Siegel and Mary Hartzell’s Parenting From the Inside Out: How a Deeper Self-Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive

Dan Siegel and Ting Bryson’s No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind

Dan Siegel and Tina Bryson’s The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind, Survive Everyday Parenting Struggles, and Help Your Family Thrive.

Dan Siegel and Tina Bryson’s The Yes Brain

Patricia Tollison’s Self-Regulation for Kids K-12: Strategies for Calming Minds and Behavior

Shefah Trabary’s The Conscious Parent: Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children https://drshefali.com/the-conscious-parent

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WEBSITES

beaconhouse.org.uk/resources/

Neuro-Nurturing from Brain Insights – Brain Insights, LLC (braininsightsonline.com)

LIBRARY | ChildTrauma Academy

Conscious Discipline – Social and Emotional Learning

Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University

Children, Emotion Regulation, Polyvagal Theory |Dr. Schwartz (drarielleschwartz.com)

Resource Center – Unyte Integrated Listening

The MEHRIT Centre Home – Shanker Self-Reg ®

UPDATED Parent Handouts: Understanding ACEs, Parenting to Prevent & Heal ACEs | Parenting with PACEs | PACEsConnection

Homepage – Circle of Security International

Safe Hands Thinking Minds | Relational and developmental trauma in children

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