I know that cringe, I know that fear.

I, too, have enjoyed when no one’s near.

You lose the desire to try when all you feel is failure.

No decisions are easy when you believe they’re all wrong.

So you learn to avoid and forget to deal.

You become so good at concealing,

You cannot even conceive of healing…

There are times when I’ve wanted to explode

And share with the world my many woes.

But when you think too hard, that wire disconnects…

Why am I here?

Why should anyone care?

Every mistake and breakdown were cries for help

But no one is answering,

Not even me.

Poem written by Debra Wallace 1997




Positive Reframe shares resources with the intent of the positive progression of informed decision-making related to issues associated with emotional, relational, physical, and spiritual wellness. While I share personal and professional perspectives, my writings reflect my personal opinion and are not intended to substitute professional advice, diagnosis, and treatment thus the content shared on this page is for informational purposes only. This online medium does not lend itself to the level of detail and rapport building required for thorough assessment and therapeutic intervention. To make well-informed decisions that best meet your family’s unique needs, I highly recommend exploring and researching available options, consulting primary healthcare providers, engaging in respectful dialogue with friends and family as well as seek referrals from a trusted source for professional counseling. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of Illinois, USA.

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