Negative Effects of Toxic Stress
All negativity comes from a state of stress within our central nervous system.
All negativity comes from a state of stress within our central nervous system.
I started reading “Only Love Today” by Rachel Macy Stafford”. It is an absolutely amazing book. So much so, as I was reading it, I found myself repeatedly saying, “Yes!” “I know!” “I do that.”
I had realized all this holiday hullaballoo was a ploy to get us to buy stuff and it hurt me to play the part.
Speaking from personal experience, every time my child would act out, I would automatically have the negative thought of “What is wrong with him/her!?” which very quickly turned to “What is wrong with me!?”
If children feel safe, they can take risks, ask questions, make mistakes, learn to trust, share their feelings, and grow.
If I have any shred of doubt or ambivalence in myself or my decision, my kids will attack incessantly as they are confident with what they want and can sense my weakness.
It has taken great effort and positive intentions to heal past wounds, un-learn negative conditioning, rewrite narratives, and resolve many, many conflicts.
Human bodies are amazing and self-regulating. We each have unique homeostasis that our bodies need to feel balanced and function optimally.
After observing and working with hundreds of children as well as having my own, I have discovered:
Every Halloween, my son wants to make his own costume. The therapist and educator in me absolutely love his initiative