“Only Love Today” and Comfort Zone
I started reading “Only Love Today” by Rachel Macy Stafford”. It is an absolutely amazing book. So much so, as I was reading it, I found myself repeatedly saying, “Yes!” “I know!” “I do that.”
I started reading “Only Love Today” by Rachel Macy Stafford”. It is an absolutely amazing book. So much so, as I was reading it, I found myself repeatedly saying, “Yes!” “I know!” “I do that.”
I had realized all this holiday hullaballoo was a ploy to get us to buy stuff and it hurt me to play the part.
If children feel safe, they can take risks, ask questions, make mistakes, learn to trust, share their feelings, and grow.
If I have any shred of doubt or ambivalence in myself or my decision, my kids will attack incessantly as they are confident with what they want and can sense my weakness.
It has taken great effort and positive intentions to heal past wounds, un-learn negative conditioning, rewrite narratives, and resolve many, many conflicts.
After observing and working with hundreds of children as well as having my own, I have discovered:
We are all doing the best we can with the resources we are aware of or have access to.
“You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you. What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you want to make.”
When my son was six years old, I had two teachers suggest that my son was “emotionally immature.” Honestly, these complaints were very hard for me to swallow on many levels, especially since I am passionate about emotional intelligence and helping children cope with emotions. I, as respectfully as possible, accepted and validated their comments because, …
I wrote this poem about my parenting journey with my son which has been published in the book, Poetry of Yoga by HawaH.